Another wee Batchelor rant..

I've watched these dating shows for a long long time, and it finally 
hit me. It so so infurriates me, that every season, the dater always 
makes a point of saying they've fallen for the final 3 or 4 people.

I don't get it. Do they get paid extra to say that? Is it part of 
their contract? I mean he just said he had fallen..like inlove, with 
all 4 girls! Not only is he an idiot because he said it to one of the 
girl's mothers. He's also an idiot if he believes what he just said.

Because it isn't possible. It's impossible. Love is a whole-heart and 
full-body thing. It's an all over experience, and for it to be real, 
it has to be ALL, and if you're feeling it for 4 people at the same 
time, their each only actually getting pieces.

I understand it's a dramatic, romantic notion, being torn between 2 
great loves. But that's only in scripted movies, and even then, it's 
TWO lovers, not FOUR, you WHORE!!

I've never been paid to date 30 people at once, and be surrounded by 
fancy dates and tv cameras, so I know that I can't judge, and act like 
I really know what I'm talking about. Maybe love DOES act differently 
when it's on tv. But even if I ran into Shia tomorrow and he knocked 
my books out of my hands, and when we both bent down to pick them up, 
our hands brushed, and we gazed into eachothers eyes..I could still 
never possibly fall for him. Not into ANY sort of love, when I'm 
already so deep in it with my boyfriend. It isn't possible.

Love is only true love if it's whole love. Love is only whole love if 
it's all for one love.